Private Investigator School

Cali~Girl asked:


I am a 25 year old mommy that lives in california, i found out that my spouse was cheating on me but i dont want to brack up my family because my children love there dad. please help me what should I do ????

Jo

xonicolemarie23 asked:


okay so this sounds off the fence to me, i just started my freshman year at a school an hour and a half away from home. im not a bad kid. i dont smoke, i get straight A’s, i dont party every weekend, and im a strong supporter of abstinence. unfortunately my father thinks i am out of control if i stay out past 1130. my best friend is going to school in maine and my boyfriend is going to long island. i would never visit them without asking first, but my dad thinks i am just going to flee and not tell anyone. he told me i cant leave the campus of my school and i cant go to new haven (which is right near my school). he has been freaking out over everything i say and do, and trust me it is impossible to talk to him about it. VERY THINKHEADED.

anyway getting to the point, he told my older cousin and mother that he hired a private investigator out of new haven to make sure i dont leave campus or do anything wrong. he said he pays $175 a month (which seems extremely low since its normally around $100 an hour). he said that my RA contacts the investigator and tells him what time i come home and when im in my room. my RA is a double major and barely has time to breathe so idk when she would have time to do this. he didnt say if t he “investigator” comes on campus or follows me on campus, but i doubt he would be able to get on campus and watch me like an investigator does, i even have trouble getting on campus sometimes and i go there. security is rediculously strict.

so basically i feel that it is impossible expecially in my case to h ave a private investigator follow me. but i was wondering if anyone ever heard anything else like this? or if this is even possible to do. i am 18 years old and will be 19 in january. i feel like colleges wouldnt allow this and RAs wouldnt do this. college strongly supports independance and encourages students not to go to their parents with problems but to find a solution on their own. SUGGESTIONS COMMENTS AND HELPPPPP PLEASE.

Mark